Understanding the Complexities of Widowhood in Nepal

Abstract

In Nepalese culture, the term "widow" is laden with negative connotations, contrasting with the seldom-mentioned "widower. " Widows face significant social stigma, economic challenges, and emotional hardship fueled by societal perceptions that label them as threats and diminish their self-worth. This study, focusing on 15 widows in Mahankal Rural Municipality, Lalitpur, explores the impact of widowhood on their social status, health, and economic well-being. Methodologically, qualitative data was collected through interviews. Findings reveal that widows endure loneliness and isolation, often receiving minimal healthcare prioritization and limited familial support during illness. Their authority in social and religious activities diminishes post-widowhood due to societal beliefs that consider their participation inauspicious. The stigma surrounding widowhood contrasts their previous higher social status, often relegating them to lower esteem within their communities. Remarkably, while most widows oppose remarriage due to societal traditions, a minority support the possibility of it. Financially, respondents reported worsened conditions post-loss, frequently seeking support from relatives. Although many had managed their incomes independently before becoming widows, autonomy in financial decisions sharply declined thereafter. Challenging claims to their late husband's property further complicates their economic struggles. Ultimately, this investigation highlights the persistent barriers widows face in Nepal, stressing the urgency for targeted research and advocacy efforts to promote their dignity and rights, thereby addressing the neglect of widowhood in women's rights discussions.